I know some of you are wondering “am i an ideal submissive”? However an ideal submissive,
or even a Dominant differs to each individual on both ends. Personally, here are a few qualities I find enjoyable.
đź’—Shared kink interests:đź’—
By far this is super important. I like playing with subs that enjoy the same things as I do.
It’s completely pointless (and quite rude) to approach a Domme that states that She isn’t into your fetish that you want to entertain Her with. Don’t even go there or push it.
Attracted to a Domme and unsure if She enjoys a specific type of play that you do?
Research Her. Google Her name, buy some content, read Her
website, blogs, social media, and other listings. If you’re still unsure approach kindly with your question with a small tribute leaving any tip notes blank if Her preferred method of payment is “off-platform”. Also, keep in mind what platform you’re playing on. Don’t position yourself or most importantly Herself at risk for a TOS violation. Be the one that makes a good impression.
đź’—An open mind:đź’—
Personally, I like to mix fetishes and kinks in different ways in My BDSM play. I really get off on tinkering around with your subby buttons.
Doing the same play/activity/scenario can be super repetitive and boring to Me and perhaps as W/we session and get to know each other I ask many questions. I most enjoy subbies that are open to different kinds of play with
in O/our negotiated limits to “mix it up”.
đź’—A sense of humor:đź’—
Ok, so I have a *big* humor kink and I think this ties into why I love humiliation play. (A good way to hear My infamous cute giggle.)
Its just super satisfying to Me that I can get you to roll around in glitter and goop, maybe leading you on to earn a creampie to the face, or even get you to dress up in some hilarious costumes;
just for the sake of My joy and laughter. For you Finsubs out there, it’s even better when you pay Me for it as I’m literally laughing to the bank. Maybe I’ll even let you laugh with Me.
đź’—Being respectfully mindful:đź’—
ALSO VERY IMPORTANT!
Rude, entitled subs I won’t even play with because I find it BORING. Its FUN to play by My rules. Plus nobody likes to play videogames or any *other* games with boring subs; let alone being around them. So keep this in mind for when W/we do play.
As with anything; be kind, follow the rules to ensure maximum fun. As mistakes can happen, good subs learn from them.
The ability to express themselves coherently: you know exactly what I’m talking about here.
I don’t have time to try to decipher abbreviations, typos, sentences that don’t make any coherent sense when read out loud.
Don’t approach Me with nonsensical “hoetry” (horny poetry), horny typing unless *told* to.
TL;DR: After reading this, My ideal submissive to play with would have read and understood this entire thing, applies this to themselves (if not already), and perhaps found it quite agreeable.