FemDom Forward: I’ll never be your actual Girlfriend. Sorry, not sorry. I’m just “SIMP”-ly out of your league. However, I super enjoy using playtime sessions online as a way to connect. Also, there is an affiliate link below for U/us to enjoy with perks for both of U/us once you’ve signed up.
Just to get it out there, one of My biggest kinks is “sub-zoning”.
For context, to define in “vanilla terms”, “sub-zoning” as I define it is the kinky equivalent of “friend-zoning” in a D/s dynamic.
I love to “sub-zone” My subs, as I think and truly feel it’s a great way to solidify O/our unique dynamic and keeping you in “subspace” where you belong. 😉 Note, having you belong in subspace though is WITH the assumption that you’re already a good pet, mostly because you’re reading this.
If you put this in the meta of My kinks it definitely falls into the ‘tease and denial’ aspect with the sprinkle of the fact I’m a bit of an emotional sadist. I think that is why I enjoy “sub-zoning” so much. Something about that tension…😈
In general, I just love the idea of getting you worked up, hopeful, and then throwing you a curveball of some sort of fun denial.
As My sub, I’d never date you, but W/we can still enjoy each other’s company as you become committed to a (most likely) forever courtship to your Princess (Me), where W/we share utmost pleasure for My happiness.
With “sub-zoning” I find it to be an endearing way to celebrate O/our dynamic and really cementing it. Because really, I don’t date My subs. I don’t date those of a lower status, but I enjoy high-caliber service (and) submission. This is just My personal way of going about My style of Domination.
I am very much aware that someone of a higher status (Me) is definitely an ideal Girlfriend for many reasons. Too many to list and every sub has their own personal reasons on why I am an ideal Girlfriend.
Truth be told I will NEVER be your Girlfriend. That doesn’t mean that I don’t still care about O/our connection, time spent together in session or casually exchanging flirty texts. (Even though you must keep in mind that you must pay Me to care. That’s just how it is with Me.)
It does warm My heart when you do buy My content, subscribe to My Snapchat, join fanclubs, subscriptions pages, engage with Me on social media and online. Buying My clips, and leaving the perfect feedback I deserve on My various platforms are also valued as I love seeing your cute subby little love notes out in public for A/all to read. 😉 I also get much joy and feel extra powerful (Which combines those amused, happy and horny feelings that I love to feel.) when you send tributes and gifts.
Yes, I truly get turned on and excited by your acts of extra kindness of sending tributes, gifts and leaving that positive feedback when prompted, or with Me not even have to even remind them to do so. I especially love it when subs go the extra mile for Me without even being asked. It’s always a sexy surprise to Me. I think both Tops and bottoms can mutually understand the enjoyment of fun sexy surprises.
Don’t be selfish and butthurt that I won’t date you, as that is unproductive and well, not thinking or considering My wants and needs. Which in turn is a big turn-off, not fun. Dries Me up like the desert. What I find more of a turn-on is productivity.
It is much more productive to have you stay in your place, as My sub and being forever “sub-zoned” and just get turned on by My happiness. Totally erotizing the smiles that you provide Me with your cute general subbiness. Having your submission to Me can perhaps earn you a giggle here and there and a nice big smile. I want you to eroticize My happiness and know that your service is a gift I love to receive with deep appreciation.
The connection is real, and because you pay Me doesn’t make it less authentic and not valid. (Maybe I’ll elaborate on that in another blog post if I feel like it. This is more of a statement for those who don’t identify as a ‘finsub’-yet; that are perhaps lurking or if you’re a current pet.) but TL;DR I expect My subs to have healthy and realistic boundaries and expectations.
In O/our FLR dynamic you will be FOREVER “sub-zoned” always admiring Me, totally cockteased. I greatly encourage you to continue your cute little subby crush on Me. I love it when you get all flabbergasted, blushy. It’s fucking adorable. If you’re a little familiar with Me you know I am a connoisseur of the cute things as a Domme that gives a kawaii kink experience. Major duh, but as you know that you’re place is really in the “subzone.” That’s for real.
Start yourself in the “sub-zone” with Me by signing up with NiteFlirt with My affiliate link. It’s quite M/mutually beneficial as you’ll get 3 free minutes and I get a little something as well. Looking forward to talking to you, that’s if you’re not too nervous, (but you’ll muster up the courage) naturally.